Tips for Generating Solutions
Typically, every problem has more than one solution. Use the suggestions below to help you start seeing other possibilities:
Solve the Problem in Parts
As the old joke goes, “How do you eat an elephant? Take one bite at a time.” Break your problem into pieces, and work on the easiest part first. For each “bite,” come up with a one-sentence solution. From here you can develop the solution further, going from the simple to the complex.
Get Multiple Suggestions
“Two heads are better than one” is truer than it sounds. Talk to other parents who may have faced similar challenges to get their ideas about possible solutions to your obstacle. Maybe you have an ally at your child’s school who is not involved in this particular situation and can offer advice. Sometimes a fresh perspective can lead to creative solutions.
No Idea Is Too Wild
Be creative, expansive, and open to different ideas, and generate as many solutions as possible. Wild ideas are fine. Try building on the ideas of others or combining the ideas. It’s important to avoid judgment at this stage. When you have several suggestions, then you can consider the possible limitations of each idea (available staff, time, or budget, etc.). Think about what can or can’t be changed. This will help you narrow your list and choose the best answer for everyone involved.
Remember Past Successes
Have there been times in the past when you have solved a problem like this? Sometimes it can be helpful to take a step back and reflect on how you have been successful in overcoming obstacles while getting what your child needs.